According to a new study conducted at University of North Carolina, Greensboro, it’s when you move in together, not if.

The study found that couples who move in together before the age of 23 are more likely to divorce than those who shack up after 23.

The reason for this? You’re still a baby at 23! Those who believe they will get married typically show behaviors that already married people do while those who are on the fence are very different in their habits. Essentially, wait a while before you go looking for one bedroom apartments and know that you’re going to have to share space before you do it!