I recently got engaged over the holidays, and while I'm wildly happy and excited to be starting my life with my boyfriend of two years, he recently dropped a bombshell on me. Friends of ours had a baby, and we went to visit them and meet their new little girl. On the way home my fiance informed me that he is so glad that isn't us, because he can't imagine ever being a dad.

I was and still am shocked. I want kids someday and have openly talked with him about having children in the future. Should I confront him about his not wanting kids statement, or just hope that he changes his mind in a few years? I don't think I can marry someone who doesn't want a family in the future, but at the same time I can't imagine not having my fiance in my life! Please help!

Ellen