Learning to share, even when it’s hard, is a basic skill to teach your children, right? One mom thinks otherwise, and the Internet is going crazy over it. When Alanya Kolberg of Springfield, Missouri, took her son, Carson, to the park, at least six other boys rushed at him, asking him to share his toys. As they grabbed at the Transformer, truck, and Minecraft figure, Kolberg told her overwhelmed son that he could say no. To summarize what she explained in her Facebook post, she felt that in life you don’t always have to share just because someone wants what you have, so you shouldn’t have to do that as a kid. She says it’s all about learning how to set boundaries.